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Updated: Mar 30, 2022

These last few weeks, days even have me thinking about the things that mean the most to me.... "Time and relationships"

When we think about relationships New or Old do we consider there value? The value they bring to my life, the value I bring to their's.

What do I celebrate in there life and what do I want them to celebrate in mine?

Something the Lord has shown me over the years is bringing every relationship to him. Allowing him to have a say in who I allow into the intimate place of my life. Where they have access to my Heart.

Often we allow people into our lives or allow them to stay that as the saying goes

"there good people there just not good for me"

When I bring a relationship / person before the lord I ask him "is this person good for me?", "can this person go with me where your taking me?" and "does this person have a motive or an agenda?".

When i've shared this with people there often struck with wow I never thought to bring relationships to the Lord, but the truth is we should always bring relationships into prayer.

We can't see their hearts, there motives, if they have an agenda in being around you or trying to connect themselves to those around "You"

Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, But the LORD weighs the hearts.

Even in Ministry and Business I watch and see "How does this person value the people around them?" "Does this person always promote themselves or promote their own agendas?" and "Does this person have my best interest as there interest?"

The Truth is True Heathy Relations will always bring value to you and you will bring value to them. The other Truth is most often True Relationships come from Secure Healthy people.

Secure people add value to people, they uplift people and most often Secure Healthy people lead with Love and Humility.

The time we have to do what god has called us to do isn't long. I encourage you to pray about the relationships in your life. Surround yourself with people that are postured towards bringing value to your life and in return you will bring value to theres.

All My Love .... MJ

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